Sheila Tan, Author at BlissDivorce | Divorce smarter by saving time and money

About Sheila Tan

As co-founder of BlissDivorce, Sheila is passionate about empowering couples to work out disagreements with positive actions and move on with their lives. She holds an MBA from the Anderson School at UCLA, and is the former Chief Marketing Officer of LegalZoom and Invisalign. She was moved to start BlissDivorce because of her own experience with divorce, and after seeing several of her friends go through difficult divorces. She thought there must be a better way to overcome differences and reach an agreement without all the conflict created by the current system. In addition to her corporate positions, Sheila has served as an advisor to several successful startups.

Preparing for a High-Asset Divorce: Best Tips and Practices

By Sheila Tan|2023-05-30T12:15:40+00:00March 17th, 2023|Divorce Process|

Divorce isn’t easy, especially if you and your spouse own significant assets. High-asset divorce is considered to be any dissolution of marriage in which the marital assets are worth one million dollars or more. Couples who usually own their home, own luxury motor vehicles, retirement accounts, and other investments like equities and second homes or rental properties. High-asset divorces tend to take more time to reach divorce settlement and legal fees can skyrocket along the way. Apart from bearing emotional [...]

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Cryptocurrency and Divorce in California

By Sheila Tan|2023-05-30T12:31:03+00:00February 1st, 2023|Dealing With Divorce, Divorce Process|

The Rise of Cryptocurrency Cryptocurrency, such as Bitcoin and Ethereum, has become increasingly popular in recent years, with more and more individuals investing in digital assets. With the rise of cryptocurrency, it is no surprise that the topic has found its way into the realm of divorce proceedings. In California, cryptocurrency is considered a form of property and is subject to division in a divorce. The court will treat it like any other asset and divide it in a fair [...]

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When Is A Prenuptial Agreement Unenforceable For A Divorce In California?

By Sheila Tan|2023-05-30T12:38:40+00:00January 28th, 2023|Divorce Process, Legal Issues|

When Is A Prenuptial Agreement Unenforceable For A Divorce In California? No one goes into marriage thinking it will end in divorce, but it is a good idea to have an agreement in place. It's essential to remember that every state has different laws for divorce and prenuptial agreements. However, in most states, the divorce law is no longer applicable if a couple has a contract in place – a prenuptial agreement (aka prenup). Whether it is enforceable or unenforceable [...]

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Is It Possible To Modify Or Terminate Alimony In California?

By Sheila Tan|2023-05-30T12:42:07+00:00January 19th, 2023|Dealing With Divorce, Divorce Process, Legal Issues|

While you cannot refuse to pay alimony, you may be able to modify the court order to reduce or eliminate the amount that you are obligated to pay your spouse. Getting out of spousal support in California is possible, but it is not always easy or straightforward. To modify or terminate alimony, you will need to demonstrate to the court that there has been a significant change in circumstances since the original alimony order was issued. Source: shutterstock.com / Photo [...]

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Can I get Out of Paying Alimony in California?

By Sheila Tan|2023-05-30T12:47:37+00:00January 3rd, 2023|Dealing With Divorce, Divorce Process, Legal Issues|

The short answer is, "yes!" If both spouses make an equal amount of money and have comparable expenses, if one spouse earns less but is fully able to support themselves, or if the spouse ordinarily entitled to alimony is already living with their new partner, you may not need to pay alimony or spousal support. Suppose you choose a method of divorce that does not involve trial or a judge's decision. In that case, more creative solutions are possible (i.e., [...]

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$Mental Health Illnesses And Divorce In California\$

Mental Health Illnesses And Divorce In California

By Sheila Tan|2023-05-30T12:51:46+00:00December 26th, 2022|Dealing With Divorce, Divorce Process|

The decision to divorce is often complicated and can be even more complex when mental health illnesses are involved. Navigating a divorce in California when mental health illnesses are involved is challenging, but it is possible to reach a successful outcome. It's essential to understand the state's laws and how mental health illnesses can affect the divorce process so that you can make the best decisions for your family. Below is an overview of what you need to know about [...]

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How To Make Holiday Traditions Special For Kids During Divorce

By Sheila Tan|2023-05-30T12:55:21+00:00December 23rd, 2022|Dealing With Divorce, Divorce Process|

Divorce can be a complex and emotional process for everyone involved, especially for kids. The holidays can be particularly tough as parents and families re-orchestrate their lives. The holidays and associated rituals intensify feelings of anxiety, depression, and financial tension underlying in the home all year long for divorced or separated couples. However, with a bit of thought, effort, and understanding, separated or divorced parents can make the holidays special for their children and help them cope with the changes [...]

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What are some great ways to stay positive and reconnect with yourself after a divorce?

By Sheila Tan|2023-07-19T02:54:01+00:00December 20th, 2022|Outreach|

Navigating a divorce can be dark, scary, and devastating, but there is light on the other side. Ending a marriage often brings new opportunities to reconnect with a part of yourself that you lost and explore new parts of yourself. Read on for some advice on positively navigating your divorce and finding inner peace in the process. Andy Heller Andy Heller from takethehighroaddivorce.com. Go on Trips and Get Involved with Meaningful Events and Activities ● Enlist the help of a [...]

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How can we speed up the divorce mediation process?

By Sheila Tan|2023-04-16T15:27:11+00:00November 29th, 2022|Outreach|

Once you and your spouse have decided to call it “quits,” you most likely want to get the whole divorce process over quickly. Mediation can help move things along, but it can still take a bit of time. Luckily, there is more you can do to help speed up the divorce mediation process. Keep reading for some expert advice. Sandra Radna Sandra Radna from Law Offices of Sandra M. Radna P.C. Follow These Tips Mediation is typically accomplished over a [...]

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How Long Does Mediation Take?

By Sheila Tan|2023-05-30T12:59:50+00:00November 14th, 2022|Dealing With Divorce, Divorce Process, Mediators|

The average divorce lawyer in CA costs $330 an hour, and the average hourly rate for a divorce mediator is closer to $450. So, if you are considering a divorce through mediation, you may be wondering: how long will this take? The shortest and most truthful answer is also the most unsettling: however long it takes for you and your spouse to agree on a settlement! Despite the higher hourly rates, couples do find that their divorces tend to be [...]

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